for some reasons i cant find any words to put about what im goin thru right now,
best not think about it.
late grandma's death anniversary is coming.
i still miss her luhhhhhhh :(
things arent at all well at home, these problems are too caught up that i dun even feel like staying home or even coming home.
see just by thinking of it already make the ache come back.
some may think that those who gives you motivational words and be the good guy are the ones who makes one work harder and improve dramatically.
well let me tell you this,
its the good guys that will hold you back, discouraging you from stepping out of the box.
without Tough Love, almost everyone wont be stepping out of their comfort zone and try to improve or be a better person for another.
without someone to scold or criticise or even correct you,
you'll forever think that you are doing the wrong thing, and by people just telling you that its wrong to do this and that, you might put that kind advice away coz you might think its not much of a matter.
you'll forever be in that same sized or surfaced box that you started in. and forever not daring to venture out.
just to think that not getting up due to a lose lose situation,
nobody can ever improve by getting laid back or by stepping back.
i disagree with backing out.
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i have this box theory that i came up with randomly.
imagine the box is you or a group of people.
the white box is a representation of yourself, your capabilities, basically about you.
there and then your skills and knowledge are only limited to the safe/comfort zone.
outside is a vast world of cruelty, new discoveries, new skills or even HURT itself.
i've heard this phrase "i'm afraid of getting hurt" one too many times.
know this, if you never venture out into the world out there, how are you to know how big ur box is?
even so, if you still venture out there and even get Hurt, well the least that could happen to you is that you will still fall back to the same original box that you were in! correct me if im wrong.
even so, when you go Out Of Your Box, and gained new skills or some other stuffs, you can already expand your box because new things are acquired.
which is equals to more safer comfort zone and better capabilities!
lets talk about in group term.
say theres ta particular group, which altogether makes up the box above.
if the all of them just work within their "safe" zone and only limited to the group strengths and capabilities.
how are they to improve themselves if they continue doing so?
say if one decided to venture out and goes to skill upgrading courses, the other goes to learn more knowledge.
but don't learn new things and just keep it to yourself, then the box wont looked like a box at all because its shape is irregular.
come back to the box, share it with the rest and then everyone else can improve together and then the box would expand and im sure everyone will be at their best!
BUT!
dun try to venture out and not come back to your original box or your Roots i'd rather name it.
for without the box,
you are nothing.
peace.
Labels: this may apply to anything that you think is applicable to.
imagine the box is you or a group of people.
you are nothing.
